When was the last time?

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When was the last time you felt at ease with yourself because you are  where you have always wanted to be? When was the last time you saw  happiness written all over your face ? When was the last time you felt fulfilled by what you have or what you are pursuing?
When was the last time ?
It might be today , it might be years or months ago or may be  , it might be a   night mare that has never visualized to reality. That time doesn't matter , what matters here is you! What are you doing about what you feel?  What are you doing about your circumstances?
Circumstances don't define you but the decision you make when in certain circumstances define you!
You keep holding on to something which is not real yet you keep complaining that your needs ain't met! You keep pursuing something which it ain't pursuing you in return  yet you say things will get better with time and you stick there! You keep compromising your dreams, vision and principles for something which even its foundation and purpose can not be defined!  Something which even you yourself can't explain yet your  heart lies to you that is love . 
Proverbs 4:23
Above all else ,guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

Guard your heart from deception, guard your heart from broken promises and above all guard your heart from lies that will break it into pieces  for you have been given the power to determine what you feed your heart with!
 
The stability and durability of a house will always depend on the foundation that was laid .  Its the foundation that holds the house but not the walls and the  roof. The same way its not the relationship between you and your partner that hold you together , but its the foundations you laid for your relationship.  Foundations laid on beauty and physical attraction tend to break simply because they can not hold a house in the times of strong winds or heavy rains  . The wind becomes too  strong for them and pulls down the whole house .  only those built on firm foundations will survive the test of times. That is the solid rock that can not be shaken
1corinthians 3:10
For no one can lay a foundation other than the one already laid which is Jesus Christ.

Its through Jesus that we can have strong foundations because He becomes the basic holder  of everything . He holds your relationship because He is the one running it .  In Him you don't look or find love but He gives you that which He had already chosen for you!  In the times of trouble you will still remain strong because you can do everything through Him Christ who strengths you.

The best thing that can happen to you in life is a relationship build on the solid rock .  The following will always be your portion!
1. purpose
You will never ask your self questions why you are there because you already put the purpose in you foundation and every day you work towards fulfilling them.
2. Growth.
You will grow all around , intellectually, spiritually ,emotionally and physically because that is what the both of you is striving to see in each other - Growth!
3. Full Emotional bank Account
Investment of emotions will be a two way thing and  occurrence of  emotional abuse will be a night mare because you will learn to understand each other's love language !
4. Fulfilment
It comes with Accomplishing your purposes as God intended them to be from the beginning
5. Joy /Happiness
Which is renewed by the solid rock -Jesus
6. Unconditional love
Love from your partner that never drains because the source of the love who is Jesus keeps the love following all the time.
7.satisfaction
Satisfaction that comes with meeting each other's needs!

Stop looking at what has already happened  to you and focus on what is coming. Focus on Jesus He will make everything good to you when He knows you are ready. You will no longer have to ask you self when was I last happy because happiness will be your portion each day. Let go of toxic one sided relationships and start to date with a purpose !  There is freedom in letting go. When people have no same goals of growth as yours,  leave  and grow to the best version of your self!  The rest of your life begins today. The rest of your life will depend on the foundations you lay today. Your marriage will depend on the foundations you choose to lay each day!

God is never in a hurry to answer some of your prayers because He wants you to have a strong foundation first!

God loves you so much and your happiness is His concern. When you get busy with God's business He also gets busy to work on your plan! Chose God above everything and He will choose your success over everything.

That which you desire is very possible . To desire  is not being attracted or interested in something. To desire something means to crave for something at the expense of losing everything you have just to have it .Make your plan and He will give an answer how it will be accomplished.


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