6 Men you will struggle with

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Catch pastor Rogers Cedar of Jubilee Christian Church Kisumu  on sky FM 106.1  every Saturday from 7:20 - 8.00pm and every  Sunday morning from 8:20-9:00am and Sunday evening from 8:00- 9:00pm (Relationship Sunday)
One of the exciting topics he has talked about to women is :

6 Men you will always struggle with :

The violent man
No matter how often he says sorry, you will struggle in a relationship with a violent man.Some of them have the audacity to hit you even before they marry you.If he cant manage his anger, he wont manage his home. Get very concerned if he hits you then tries to blame you for having pushed him to do so.Both 1Timothy 3:3 and  Titus 1:7 tell us that a good leader of the home must not be violent. 

The sucker
This is the kind of man who continually sucks your strength, your emotions, even your resources without making any effort to reciprocate or replenish you.No matter how handsome he is, you will always struggle in your relationship with a sucker.

The lazy or irresponsible man
GOD is the ultimate provider, but He often uses the man to channel the provision into the home.Many African men like the idea of being the king of the home, but they forget that one of the kings primary responsibilities is to provide.When GOD gave man the privilege of leading his family, He also gave with it the mandate to provide for his family. This is not GODs opinion but His command.When the husband, is providing for his family, he should never think he is doing them a favor.That is a GOD given obligation that he should fulfill. Matter of fact, GODs Word says, But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever 1 Timothy 5:8

The undecided or uncommitted man
Pity women who have given themselves totally to a man who doesnt even seem to care- because that is a sorry place to be.It doesnt matter how much you love him, forcing yourself on them will end up hurting you. 

The cheater
No matter how much you love a cheater, you will always struggle in your relationship with him and he will  never accept to be falsely blamed for his cheating.But some women think they can use their sexuality to keep the cheater ,Whether the man wants to cheat on you or with you, that’s a man you will struggle with

The man that doesn’t believe in you
There are men who themselves are ambitious go-getters, but they don’t want their wives or girlfriends  to achieve anything besides getting children for them.It doesnt matter how much you love such a man, as long as he doesnt believe in you or lift you up, your relationship will be a struggle.

BUT THEN THERE IS THE 7TH MAN THAT YOU SHOULD COMMIT YOURSELF TO  HE WILL NEVER DISAPPOINT- THE MAN JESUS.
HE will not only lead you into making the right choice for your relationships, but HE will also help you to be the wife your husband desires you to be.HE will fix your self-esteem, forgive your sins and restore you and you can accept Him today. HE is more than ready and willing to make your life all you were meant to be and to bless you. 


If you are already married to a violent, cheating, sucking, lazy, irresponsible, uncommitted man who doesnt believe in you, JESUS can do something for you.
HE can heal you and give you wisdom to restore your home. HE can help you build your home again. But if not yet married , you have an opportunity to know Jesus who will give you your rightful man.



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